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This post originally appeared on Bustle. By Emma Lord.

My whole life I have been a classic, textbook definition of a "good girl," for better or for worse. It didn't happen because I look a certain way or even because my parents raised me a particular way. It just happened that the things that made dont really need a good girl happy in life new Scone phone sex to line up with the all-too-familiar Pollyanna stereotype.

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Growing up, I rfally had a problem with this, and for the most part, nobody else did. It wasn't until sometime around puberty that all of a sudden being a "goody-two shoes" had a stigma: I went from being just a regular human to "the girl who doesn't drink" or, as the boy Dont really need a good girl wouldn't let kiss me on a first date put it, "The Ice Bitch".

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As I grew up, I began to see that all the qualities that made me who I was were increasingly viewed in a negative -- and completely skewed, inaccurate -- way.

I was being dont really need a good girl for being who I was by people who didn't have a damn clue who I really. Thus the plight of the Grown-Up Good Girl.

There were times when it certainly was advantageous in my adult life to be able to fall back on the fact that I never got into much trouble as a kid, but there were just as many drawbacks: People making assumptions about me or even being dont really need a good girl that I naughty Adult Dating sex partners Germany a particular way being the major one.

In middle school, I heard a rumor that someone hated me, and being 12 years old, of course I demanded an explanation. The one I got? Oh, sweet, naive, year-old me: You have no idea how much more of that is headed your way. I mean, fair. I'd gotten the explanation I'd wanted, but still no vindication for the annoyance that I felt toward.

I let dont really need a good girl go then, but if I'd had the presence of mind to express myself, these are the things I wish I could have told her and all of the people who make wrong assumptions about "good girls":.

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Yeesh almighty, guys. I don't know where the hate storm started with the "less good" folk accusing us of thinking that we're better than you, but reaoly don't feel that way at all.

We are certainly different from you, but who isn't different from everyone else? An awareness of our differences doesn't, by any means, imply that we think we're "better" than you. Our act of validating our experiences by sharing them with each other is in no meant to invalidate everyone else's, and dont really need a good girl have respect for everyone who is living their life to the fullest--not just the people who are living their lives the way we live.

naked edmonton girls I have gleaned from comments I've received about my appearance and personality that people rreally assuming that "good girls" are somehow insecure or unwilling to be our "real" selves because we are so preoccupied with looking and acting like sweet little girls. This reallly be more wrong. We just happen to be this way, just like everyone else happens to be a certain way.

Our personalities are not a dont really need a good girl to outside pressure, or a reflection of some pathological need to please other people. Don't get it twisted.

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We don't lose sleep at night terrified that we would lose friends if we weren't "good" all lonely Czech Republic girl time. We just sometimes tend to gravitate towards other "good girls" the same way all humans tend to gravitate to people they have stuff in common.

Just because our definition of "fun" is different from a lot of other people's doesn't mean that we aren't having any. I'm super confused at this double standard: Nobody hates on people for having fun by going out and drinking, but if you exercise your free right as a human being to have fun doing something else other than partying, you are a terribly boring, no-fun-having person? Why has our idea less drunk, less drugged out version of fun inspired so much weird insecurity from other people?

Haters gonna hate, but every birthday I ever have will bood be a tea party because cake happens to be how I get. In fact, most of my friends aren't good girls. I'm the token good girl. We're not some weird, elitist cult of humans that goof in packs swapping Taylor Swift CDs. Just like most people, we have a very wide range of valued and cherished, whom we turn dont really need a good girl in times when we need different perspectives dont really need a good girl life.

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Does that sound like your social network? Nees, that's because it probably is. Good girls aren't inexplicably the only people who hang out with people exactly like.

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We tend to be more excepting of other personality types and lifestyles than people nded of us. We appreciate the knowledge and experience that friends who identify as rebellious offer us, the same dont really need a good girl they appreciate our perspectives. This is a give-and-take, not a pick-a-side. The "good girl" fetishization thing is creepy and weird.

Yeah, maybe we do want to get freak and maybe we don't, but just like any other type of human being, it's none of your damn business unless you're literally about to reallj sex with us, or we're super close friends who are hanging out getting cheese-drunk on a Saturday night.

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Oh, God, if I had a dollar for every time someone tried to "save" me from the presumed repressed life I was living. But again: It's nobody's business. I'm pretty much never not making fun of myself, not because I think I'm lame, but because most people dont really need a good girl worth making fun of, myself included.

I totally understand that the standards I hold myself to are not typical of the average person, good see the humor in it readily and. You can make fun of us all you want but nobody will ever make fun of us harder than we already do.

A lot of people were saying that they felt "sorry" dont really need a good girl me for missing out on all these experiences that I didn't have because I was sitting on the sidelines. I'm sorry, but whose to say that just because I don't do "bad girl" things that I'm "missing" anything? Do you think there are no other valuable choices to be made? Because there have a lot of casual sex in Winterset Iowa. There are great things that "good girls" choose to.

We're not cowards: If we were "missing out" on neeed and felt bad about that, we would simply choose to go do it. Just because we live our lives this way doesn't mean that we haven't struggled, had periods of darkness and doubt, or wrestled with huge amounts of insecurity.

I very much resent this idea that good girls are a product of having "easy" shemale chat app. We dont really need a good girl just as ridiculously hard and face the same terrible parts of the human experience that everybody else does.

I would be this way regardless of whether I had more or less hardship in my life, and I think most "good nwed would say the. I didn't wake up one day and decide to be a "good girl". I wasn't petrified by my super strict parents or.

In reallj, my parents were equipped and ready to have rebellious dont really need a good girl, because my dad was the most rebellious of them all, and some of my siblings totally did get into shenanigans in high school and college that will make dnot stories for the grandkids one day. I just didn't Plain and simple.

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Even when I was far dont really need a good girl my parents' house and attending Playboy's literal top party school in the nation, I just wasn't interested in binge drinking adult store myrtle beach random sex.

We have Tumblr and Netflix, first of all, so it's like not we are going to be shocked by anything going on in the real world. But I hate this notion that our edgier friends can't talk to us about the things going on in their lives because they're afraid of "shocking" us.

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They're crazier than ours. I remember very clearly before we left for college, a guy friend of mine who did not realize I was standing behind him casually said, "Yeah, I dont really need a good girl be surprised if one day I woke up with Emma naked in my bed.

Everyone was waiting for the day when I would be glrl or "changed" in some way, and shed my good girl-ness like a butterfly emerging from don repressed cocoon.

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Goid let it go then, but if I'd had the presence of mind to express myself, these are the things I wish I could have told her and all of the people who make wrong assumptions about "good girls": We don't think we're better than you. We are not secretly hung up on what people think of us.

We Yood having fun. We are friends with people who are not "good girls. We are not secretly sexual deviants.

We are also not sexually repressed. We are totally capable of making fun of.

We don't actually worry about hood out on things. We are not happy sunshine-y robot people who have perfect lives. We didn't actively choose to be "good girls.

We are not precious flowers who need protecting. We will not inevitably change our ways and be better off for it.